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First of all, its a long time since last time I wrote something. Last time I checked was in July actually, but it feels like a longer time ago. Not that I want to make a fuzz about it ,but I am starting to write in English now, and also will communicate in English in most modalities. This are for many reasons, and one of them is that the world is getting more international in my eyes. I have friends from all parts of the world, who are curious about my work, and who dont understand norwegian. I can help more people come out of suffering, and come alive, and not only norwegian people. I randomly meet people from all over the world here in Oslo, and I see the influencers communicate in english here. Its time to include and communicate to the world, and see what potential opportunities this might bring.

This last weekend is the first of many, where I attended Angus and Rohini Ross; Rewilding guide training program for coaches. Where we will learn and have already started to learn, how to speak authentically, show up even though we are not comfortable with it, show our vulnerability, and take our masks off. This is a training for 6 months, and I see this will help my business tremendously, as I am getting into the more visible atmosphere.

I must say that the decision joining this group that holds a beautiful space of an even playing field, was the best decision I could do for myself right now. I am excited to see what comes out of me as I am getting better at sharing from where I am at, and as I am getting humble inside of myself. To invite people into my world, as I invite people to see their natural state of love, well-being, peace of mind, joyment, and true confidence. As I share, I invite people to share and be more visible as well.

In other words; Getting better at being of service to people in the world 

How can we be of service to the world, when we hold ourselves back? Thats what I have been doing, listening to the conditioned culture thinking, instead of listening to my inner health and wisdom. If we care to much about what other people think, we shrink, and that is not the purpose of life. That reminds me of Marianne Williamson´s quote, «our deepest fear. I heard this one for the first time at Brendon Burchards experts academy in San Jose 2013, before I came over Syd Banks understanding.

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

My reflections of sharing from the weekend 

We started this weekend off by introducing ourselves, and I raised my hand in zoom pretty early. As I was waiting for my turn, I really enjoyed everybodys story, and took myself in being in the moment most of the time. When I have been waiting for my turn in other situations earlier in a group setting, I have usually started thinking a lot of what to say, and sometimes become so self conscious that the nervous feelings would just build up. This time, not at all. That says something about how comfortable I was with this group, and the space Angus and Rohini creates for us to feel safety, and show up as you are.

It turned out that it was so many shares on Saturday, and we past midnight Norwegian time already, where everybody was full, and the next group of people who will present, had to present on Sunday. So it was my time on Sunday.

On Sunday,  Rohini asked us to raise our hands to see who didn’t share the day before, I was the first to raise my hand in zoom. So, I got to go first. I was kind of hoping I would be early on Sunday to present (18 pm Norwegian time – they are ending from LA). but didn’t realize I would be the first. I think I showed up beautifully, as I rose to the occasion. I had to. I shared my transformative coaching journey, and how I got into this understanding, and why I am here on this Rewilding guide training. As I was sharing, I really felt spontaneous and humble being in the unknown, as the words just came out of me. I was a little nervous, but in a positive way, I would say, and it felt really good to open my heart to the group.

One the things I shared was that I can get a little bit self aware when I am talking to groups. My mind is getting busy sometimes speaking in front of many people. That I would like to be more comfortable with however I am experiencing in the moment, and continue anyway. To become unstoppable in expression. I also would like to be more honest with people on how I feel, and less of a people pleaser. I am already starting, even before the training started, and I can see this unfold in myself, without me being in the way for that process to happen. I also see myself being in an intimate relationship at a point, and this training is great for people who are in relationships.  As it is a lot to with being vulnerable, and express your feelings.

I have so many ideas now when it comes to my business, in how to be of better service to the world. One of the entrepreneurial ideas I came up with, leading up to this weekend, was helping people have more successful «first meetings» with people in any situation. This is one of the things I have been good at not knowing about it, or conscious about it, in sales particularly (career early). So I bought the yourfirstmeeting.com domain last week. Your first meeting is just about the same thing, slow down in yourselves in order to enjoy people and share who you are in the moment. Be more spontaneous and trust that the intelligence behind life got your back.

Anyways, back to my weekend:

I shared that this was actually more difficult to share authentically as myself, than I thought it would be in advance, but I see know as I write, that it is actually easy to share, when you show up as yourself. I see now that I will have plenty opportunities to share as I know I got the support from this wonderful group. I know now that this group support will be invaluable to me, and that I will gain more and more confidence as I am sharing. But it is a difference between true confidence and confidence. When we share from true confidence, there is no problem as it goes by itself. When we get more confidence, believing in our ability to share gets bigger. I see potentially I will get abstinens, in periods where I am in vacation and not sharing. It is a comfortable and uncomfortable muscle getting stronger as we are using the muscle. Hope that makes sens to people.

 

 

 

 

 

 


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